Should children help us in the kitchen?????
As a Montessori teacher I often get asked 'how can we help our child at home with Numeracy and Literacy?' and often my answer would be 'let them help you in the kitchen/home' the respond is 'you are kidding, what MESS, who will clean it up?........'.
when a child enters nursery (a Montessori nursery) the first skills introduced will be the 'Practical Life Skills' these skills are the link to home and nursery. So what is Practical Life skills? well basically it is any type is physical activities which will help a child develop their motor skills, cognitive development, self confidence, personality and most important independence. And yes we mum's would love our children to be independent.
So how can we help our child develop these skills?
Let them free in your home, let them be part of the family, by this I mean let them help Daddy with what he maybe doing eg: cleaning the garage, help Mummy pick up the toys. Don't let them be in front of the TV, Computer or play games on play station as this is an easy option for most mother's especially working Mum's as they are tired and need to get dinner ready and having your child in the kitchen will only make things worse. Am I right? I'm sure most of you will say yes, don't worry even I have done that in the past when time is of an essence.
Learning through play is the best way a child can learn, if it's fun, colourful and creative then a child will learn. You must remember children are smarter then you think, they learn through WATCHING, hey doesn't this ring a bell?.... in the play ground most if not all boy's play fight and where do you think they have learnt that from?....does the TV sound familiar? so I think you know what I mean but in this case we want them to watch us, yes us folding the clothes, picking up the toys, sweeping the floor and hey the list can just go on and on and on.....
So going back to my question. invite your child to help you as well as in the home but in the kitchen also, how? let them count the potato's, set the table, wash the spoons, fold the towels. take it one step further and let them help you cook, make cake's, smash the potato's, grate the cheese....and so on, don't worry about the mess they can help you clean it up this will teach them what mess they make they clean up. This is how we teach them at school so why can't it work at home?.
It is these skill's which will enable your child to become more independent and learning them becomes fun because you add in the numeracy of counting, measuring,sorting etc and the language will become more effective 'add the egg's then the flour' 'can you pass me the dustpan and brush please....thank you'. think of the child being introduced to manners and etiquette, if you speak to your child in a soft tone and polite manner then that is what they will pick up and speak to you in that same manner. And most important of all think of the bond you will build between you and your child. Ask yourself 'do they need the TV if they have you?'.
To follow soon:
Example's of activities which you can do with your child
Pictures of practical life activities
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Take care
Aysha Daud